So, after talking to some people (unnamed of course) I'm of the opinion that this will not be fixed until v9, so here is my solution
(Look it up on the net)
Install this "F5" refresh addon and it works ok
It doesn't seem to hold the "options" setting, it seems to reset the page every time,
but HEY, it works for me,
might work for you also.........
Not sure what happened , nothing change on the server and no account changes, but it started to work, all works as it should.
So maybe it's just not stable code, or maybe somthing else.
Roll on v9